Yesterday Today and Tomorrow

Welcome once again to a re-done reorganized blog... big changes in store.

Origininally a few years ago I started this blog through a hard time, evolved it into a family blog, and now will reclaim this as primarily my blog.

It is truely my Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.



The man I love, and was married to for close to 10 years has again decided to leave us. So with this please deal with me as we transition and find our wings.



Please keep any and all comments nice - as I do not have hard feelings at this time to him - only confusion, frustration and hurt.



Keep reading - this will be great therapy!!

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Bitter Sweet?

You know bitter sweet fits alot of things in our life, but expecially one thing inperticular.
The relationship between us, and mikes dad and step mom.

Things have been rocky much of the time, and last year mike decided not to speak with, to or of them. This came after much heartache and let downs and mike was tired of hearing it all. We chose to bring madaya into the world with out knowing her daddys dad, and stepmom. We were ok with this, but always knew we would someday tell madaya about them and why things are the way they are. Until now it hadnt really come up as we just plain out havent seen them, talked to them or the like.

They were in town and with the permission of Mike we agreed to let them have the choice to meet their grandaughter.
Much to our surprize they met our conditions ( they had to come to her, meet her cause they WANTED to, and keep it very cordial ) and came and met her.

It was a great visit. The kids all had so much fun, and it was great to let them see her. She didnt know exactly what to think like with anyone she doesnt know but at least we have pics, and stories to tell her when she is old enough to understand.

Here are some of the photos

Grandpa Steve with the girls
Toria Daya and Belicia
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Lisa with the girls
Toria Daya and Belicia
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Corey ( mikes baby brother ) with madaya
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