You mean I have a choice?

Lately it feels as though everyone is making choices for me....
I guess I have a choice.

2 Really -
1.) I can move forward with myself my life and the situation at foot - while hoping that he will wake up and want us ?! And work towards us getting back together?
or
2.) I can move on. I can heal my heart, look for someone who wants me and can love me and hope that I can again find happiness like I had?! all this while letting him have the life hes now chosen.

I dont really know what to do and Ive considered both - But after some recent events, I think maybe I should move on like he said? Ive been " moving forward" for close to 2 months now and everyone from counsler to friends to his family has told me I have done so much and so well... I didnt think so, but then when I looked at it all I have. I have seriously done so well in moving forward. A new place, new job ( YES!!! I HAVE A JOB - more details to come later ) , new attitude and everything that comes with it. Shit, I even got a new hair do! LOL. Its been a while eigh?
Anyways, they are all right I have moved forward. Now while thinking about it I deserve not to hurt too! Ive been waiting and dreaming of him wanting me and coming home to us.... and its not gonna happen. it would take 2 of us to " work it out " and it would be hard - but im only willing. hes not - yet, or ever? Were not a highschool boyfriend girlfriend. We are married/Were married. We have a child. Fuck it - I deserve someone to come home to - who wants to come home me. Who wants to be here for us and our needs daily and likewise in return. Who wants to stick with us through thick or thin, and better or worse ... all the things i thought he did.
I do not deserve to " wait " while he figures out what he wants or finds his happiness simply because its unfair. I want him, yes. I love him, yes. But can I be so hurt hoping - NO the answer is no. I want happy days again, I want to love again, and to be loved again. I dont want to cry in the night time, and I dont want to wonder if hes thinking of me, wanting to fix this mess were in?! I want to know my place. He wants nothing of the sort.....
so hes made my choice right? he made the choice to leave me, leaving me no choice but to move on?
so....
what next?