update on the party drama.. lol

the update you drama hounds ( ONLY KIDDING ) wanted... regarding the PARTY mess.


Ok so thanks for the emails, and stuff it was reassuring.

I kinda just came down to the conclusion that although i felt horrible for my nephew, I would go spend private time with him before his party, and then the next day for cake with him.

It worked out in that matter only.

If they want to celebrate that way ... great. Its her/their lift. And all of us who had to go on with out it, I guess can deal with it in our own way. I never wanna be looked at as doing something i said i wouldnt etc.. or being hypocritical and for me to go woulda been just that.

Whats funny, is over the past few days are all the suggestions, comments and such really do vary. From way to go.. to How sad... to god knows what. I did what I know in my heart to be right, and only hope in the future when and if she asks for party advice she takes into consideration the time, lifes and others of her family so that they can do things too! Theres many who really do love nathan, and woulda loved to be there. Live and Learn?!

* Oh and for the 1 who asked ( youll know who you are ) NO!!! this is not the only issue. We have alot of history! And I am honest with her, she knows where I stand.