Pre-School Interview gone wrong

We have been calling, researching and looking into many possibilities for Madaya and pre-school and mainly the right fit for our family.

Today Mike and I took her to a local pre-school that " finally had an opening " and we were both appauled.
While for child care the center seems like it may be a good place, for preschool we don't feel its an option. Its all one area for daycare and school and the kids dont seem to respond well to that. I know daya would not. She is too routine, and if there was that much activity going on around her the over stimulating environment would quickly become way to much for her.
They also had very odd potty rules - calls us funny or whatever, but our daughter goes on her own, cleans herself and not very often needs assistance or help. This " school's " Policy is to " escort them to the bathroom, stand there ( in the bathroom ) while the child goes " Were not ok with that because 1.) Daya doesnt like anyone in there with her and 2.) We have instilled the whole " NO ONE BUT DAYA MOMMY OR DADDY can touch any area down there! The school wipes each child. While I am sure its because they think they are helping, for our daughter it wouldnt be a help.

Lets sum this up with they commented on " how little she is and if they are sure she eats enough " We will skip that as I am pretty sure we dont need some highschool student working 3 days a week at this center determining that she needs to call CPS because our little girl is just that... Little!

Grr...
So our search will continue!