in and out laws

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Inlaws or Outlaws

Venting Blog Warning!

I am so frustrated and thought I would get some of it out on my blog.
It seems again as if my " outlaws" are at it again. Mike had made the decission a while back not to talk to his father since his father refused to admit anything, or own any of his actions to and for mike as a child. Mike tried to bring it to him and was shut down again. Over the years the Inlaws said many many hurtful things about me, mike and our said children ( while we were trying to get pregnant ) . Here we are in Feb of 2007 our lil roo is 4 months old and they will never meet her. I dont think even if they were allowed to they would however because of their actions.
I just get so frustrated because theres days like today when one of mikes siblings will call him and be like " you really should talk to dad, call him etc" it kills me to think they actually want mike to have something to do with an issue he has many times over tried to resolve. I stand by my husband and support his decission. I admire him and am proud of him for sticking up for his wife and daughter. The actions and words from the mouths of these people are in no way acceptable. It hurts, will always hurt and all mike is trying to do it heal and protect us ---- how can they be mad at that?

Just a vent... LEAVE HIM ALONE!

When and IF ( thats a big IF now ) the time is right perhaps things will change. Until then, Mike has made his choice, and we dont need to hear about it daily, weekly or even monthly. WE DONT CARE.

We are a FAMILY - and that means were to be accepted as is and together!

Someday.... they will know.

Inlaws? Outlaws? Its all indifferent!